CLUB RULES
BiZarre Events Club Rules
We have very simple but strict CLUB RULES for all our events and we absolutely expect everyone to follow these to the letter!
We strongly suggest that you familiarise yourself with our CLUB RULES before attending any of our parties, because if you are found to IGNORE or BREAK our club rules YOU WILL BE ASKED TO LEAVE!
We also reserve the right to exclude you from attending future events and revoke your membership without refund in certain cases.
Here is the short version of our rules. Every point is explained in more detail further below. If you have questions regarding any of these rules or anything else, please contact us directly via email.
FEMALE EMPOWERED SAFE-SPACE
ADHERE TO OUR DRESS CODE
ALWAYS ASK FIRST BEFORE TOUCHING
NEVER INTERRUPT A SCENE
GIVE PEOPLE SPACE (don't crowd them)
ALWAYS BE POLITE & RESPECTFUL
'NO' MEANS 'NO'
NO PRESSURE, NO PESTERING
IF YOU’RE NOT SURE, DON’T DO IT
NO PHOTOGRAPHY, NO MOBILE PHONES
NO ILLEGAL DRUGS
Female Empowered
All our events are EXPLICITLY designed to be FEMALE EMPOWERED SAFE-SPACES. We are proud to be providing the UK scene's most robust safety and security for our guests. Our Security Crew Members are experienced paid professionals (we never work with so-called 'volunteers').
But beyond that, we make sure that especially our female guests NEVER feel like they are 'the entertainment' or 'the product/service'. Instead we offer an environment of genuine female empowerment, no matter whether you are D or s in YOUR play.
Our Dress Code
We want you to be creative and make an effort to leave the 'everyday street clothes look' outside.
We do not have a special dress code, dictating exactly what you must wear. But we DO EXPECT you to come up with your own look that reflects your own idea of what LOOKS APPROPRIATE to you and to others at the event.
We definitely DO NOT insist on expensive designer outfits to satisfy our Dress Code.
We DO EXPECT you to look interesting and APPROPRIATELY DRESSED for the occasion.
Our Crew will ask you to meet this requirement!
Be creative, make an effort and have fun!
Don't just touch others! Ask First!
Always! Ask! First! REFRAIN FROM MAKING ANY PHYSICAL CONTACT UNTIL / UNLESS IT IS REQUESTED OF YOU! Never ever assume that you can reach out and touch without first getting permission to do so!
Don't Interrupt!
Please, NEVER EVER interrupt a scene! If you would like to join in please WAIT until you are approached and actually INVITED to join in!
Give People Space!
Please DO NOT ‘crowd’ people while they are playing! Give them enough space so they do not feel uncomfortable, overwhelmed or pressured in any way by onlookers standing too closely around them!
Always WAIT TO ACTUALLY BE INVITED before you actively join a scene.
Always be Polite & Respectful!
ALWAYS be polite and sincerely tolerant! BiZarre Events are ALWAYS about promoting diversity in alternative night-life. Our events are explicitly aimed at the LGBTQ+ community and tend to attract a very colourful and diverse crowd from all sorts of backgrounds and 'scenes'.
That's the way we like it!
We invite, welcome and actively encourage members of all sexualities, genders and gender-identities to be part of our events and have fun. The same is of course also true for ethnicity, religion, age, dis/ability, nationality, etc. Our parties are EXPLICITLY NON-EXCLUSIVE.
'No' means 'No'!
You have the right to say 'No' if you don't want to do something / anything, or wish to stop playing at any time!!!
You are always 100% in control. Depending on the situation, a polite shake of the head or a hand signal may suffice, but if necessary simply say 'No' - and that's that!
By the same token, if you get a rejection, don’t take it personally. SIMPLY ACCEPT THE FACT AND MOVE ON. If someone asks you to stop or move away, please do so IMMEDIATELY!
Do Not make others Uncomfortable!
Never make anyone at our parties UNCOMFORTABLE in ANY WAY WHATSOEVER! If you're not sure if something is allowed or wanted, don't do it! Always ask first! And if someone asks you to stop or move away, please do so IMMEDIATELY.
No Pressure, No pushiness!
Always respect the wishes of others, who like you, are here to enjoy themselves at their own pace.
If you’re not sure, don’t do it!
If, at any time during the event, you are unsure about anything or whether you should / could do something, please ASK FIRST! Don't just do it!
Our Crew are here to help, guide and advise - speak to them! Also, many of our 'regulars’ will be more than happy to share their experience, tips and advice.
No Photography or Mobile Phone use!
We absolutely DO NOT allow photography or audio / visual recording of any kind at any of our events!
You are also NOT ALLOWED to use your mobile phone while inside the venue! Check your phone in at our cloakroom on arrival for safe-keeping.
If you need to make a phone call, you can request your phone to be returned to you FOR USE ONLY AT THE CHECK-IN DESK (or of course outside of the venue) at any time.
No Illegal Drugs!
We enforce a 100% no-illegal-drugs policy at all our events. We will not tolerate any drug possession or drug use, and anyone caught with drugs or using drugs will be expelled from the premises and banned from attending any future events. YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED!
Our Floor Security Crew (Stewards)
All our events have stewards present who are there to ensure everyone has a good time. If you are new to the scene and/or unsure about anything please ask them.
If you find that someone at any of our events is breaking or ignoring our rules please stay polite and respectful, but REPORT THEM TO ONE OF OUR STEWARDS IMMEDIATELY so that they can address the matter there and then.
Our stewards are here to help and to support you! Their word / decision is final at all times!
Please Note: Everyone attending our events do so freely by choice and are free to consensually express themselves without inhibitions. There are no paid persons or entertainers at any of our events. Paying an entrance fee and/or for membership, simply implies that you wish to be in the company of like-minded adults.